Le Henné

13392
53086

Fiançailles / henné

 

La cérémonie du henné trouve sa source dans les pays musulmans où on lui attribue une action contre le mauvais œil. Chez les juifs, on retrouve surtout la coutume du henné dans les mariages séfarades traditionnels. Le henné marque le début des festivités du mariage.

Par cet acte, la fiancée entre dans sa future famille.

 

La cérémonie du henné a été reprise chez les juifs qui lui accordent une signification importante.

 

La Michna 6 de la Guemara Chabath (chap. 2) – que nous lisons tous les vendredis soirs dans l’ordre de la prière – nous enseigne que : “Pour une des trois transgressions qui suivent, les femmes peuvent mourir en couches : si elles ne font pas attention à l’impureté périodique (les règles de nida), au prélèvement d’un morceau de pâte de pain (la ‘hala) et à l’allumage des bougies de Chabath ((h)adlakate haner).”

 

Une fois mariée, il est du devoir de chaque femme juive de prendre garde à ces trois mitswoth (commandements).

 

Les trois étapes de la cérémonie du henné font référence à ces derniers :

 

–  On prélève un morceau de henné de la pâte préparée à l’avance et à laquelle on donne parfois la forme de dragées. On applique ce morceau de pâte dans la paume de la main droite de la mariée…

Cela correspond au prélèvement de la pâte à pain et à la mitswa de la ‘hala.

 

–  On pose une pièce d’or sur la pâte de henné. La couleur or de la pièce nous fait penser à la lumière des bougies…

Cela correspond à l’allumage des bougies de Chabath et à la mitswa de (h)adlakate haner.

 

–  On recouvre le tout d’un ruban rouge. La couleur rouge évoque celle du sang…

Cela correspond aux lois de la pureté familiale et à la mitswa des lois de nida.

 

En hébreu, le henné se prononce “‘hené”. Ce mot possède la même racine que le prénom ‘Hanna. Les initiales de ce prénom signifient:

 

–  ‘Ha: ‘Halla;

 

–  NN: Nida;

 

–  A(H)Adlakate haner.

Le rite du henné se traduit différemment suivant les origines. Les coutumes sont multiples : chez les Ashkénazim, les mères des fiancés ont l’habitude de casser une assiette. Chez les Séfaradim, on pose du henné sur les mains des fiancés et des invités (en particulier les jeunes hommes et jeunes filles à marier).

Certains Ashkénazim ont la coutume de signer un accord appelé Tnaïm au cours de cette soirée. Ce document tout prêt peut être photocopié à partir de livres de coutumes ashkénazes.

La bague de fiançailles ne sera pas donnée directement par le fiancé à sa fiancée mais par l’intermédiaire de sa mère.

Il est important de remercier celui ou celle qui vous a présentés tout en lui offrant un présent.

 

 

La coutume veut qu’un repas de fête soit organisé notamment avec la proche famille. Autrefois,  cette fête se déroulait chez les parents de la jeune fille. De nos jours, la fête du henné est en général organisée dans une salle de réception compte tenu du nombre important d’invités.

Les fiancés sont généralement parés de tenues orientales chatoyantes qui, là aussi, font référence aux vêtements traditionnels portés à l’époque par les fiancés.

La cérémonie du Henné est l’occasion pour le fiancé d’offrir les fameuses corbeilles de cadeaux. Il est de coutume d’en consacrer une pour sept paires de chaussures, les autres corbeilles étant généralement remplies de bijoux, parfums, lingeries, vêtements, produits de beauté, articles religieux….

Il est d’usage également de distribuer des dragées et une feuille de henné aux filles encore célibataires de la famille, assurance d’un mariage prochain…
La mère du fiancé prépare le henné pour la cérémonie, ajoutant à la poudre de henné moulue de l’eau et des parfums, pour en faire une pâte noire-verdâtre odorante. La future belle-mère pose dans la main de la fiancée un peu de cette pâte de henné

NB : si la kala fait son henné proche de son mikvé, qu’elle ne s’inquiète pas pour des problèmes de hatsitsa (écran). La kala se lavera bien la main en frottant pour enlever tout le henné qu’elle peut. Si de la couleur reste ensuite imprégnée dans sa main, elle ne sera pas considérée comme faisant écran pour le mikvé (Rav Shalom Messas zatsal).

SHARE
Previous articleLe Mariage
Next articleLe chidoukh

13392 COMMENTS

  1. Hi there! This is my first comment here so I just wanted to give a quick shout
    out and say I really enjoy reading through your articles.
    Can you recommend any other blogs/websites/forums that deal with the same subjects?
    Thanks a ton!

  2. I do consider all of the ideas you’ve introduced in your post.
    They are really convincing and will certainly work.
    Still, the posts are very quick for starters. May just you please lengthen them a little from subsequent time?
    Thank you for the post.

  3. I’ll right away take hold of your rss feed as I can not to find
    your e-mail subscription hyperlink or newsletter service.

    Do you have any? Please let me recognise in order that I could subscribe.
    Thanks.

  4. My coder is trying to convince me to move to .net from
    PHP. I have always disliked the idea because of the expenses.
    But he’s tryiong none the less. I’ve been using
    Movable-type on a variety of websites for about a year and am nervous about switching
    to another platform. I have heard great things about blogengine.net.
    Is there a way I can transfer all my wordpress content into it?
    Any kind of help would be really appreciated!

  5. Yesterday, while I was at work, my sister stole my apple ipad
    and tested to see if it can survive a 25 foot drop, just so she can be
    a youtube sensation. My iPad is now broken and she has 83 views.
    I know this is totally off topic but I had to share it with someone!

  6. EIS Components is the stocking Distributor of XC9572-10PC44C, we specialize in Xilinx all series electronic components. XC9572-10PC44C can be shipped within 24 hours after order. If you have any demands for XC9572-10PC44C, Please kindly submit an RFQ here or send us an email. We will reply you as soon as possible.

  7. Hey I know this is off topic but I was wondering if
    you knew of any widgets I could add to my blog that automatically tweet my newest twitter updates.
    I’ve been looking for a plug-in like this for quite some
    time and was hoping maybe you would have some experience with something like this.
    Please let me know if you run into anything. I truly
    enjoy reading your blog and I look forward to your new updates.

  8. Admiring the commitment you put into your blog and detailed information you offer.
    It’s great to come across a blog every once in a while that isn’t the same out of date rehashed information. Excellent read!
    I’ve saved your site and I’m including your RSS
    feeds to my Google account.

  9. Hi there I am so thrilled I found your site, I really found you by error, while
    I was researching on Aol for something else, Regardless I am here now and would just like to
    say kudos for a fantastic post and a all round thrilling blog (I also love the theme/design), I don’t have time to browse it all at the minute but I have
    book-marked it and also added your RSS feeds, so when I
    have time I will be back to read more, Please do keep up the superb jo.

  10. Hello I am so glad I found your blog, I really found you by error, while I was researching on Google for something else, Regardless I am here
    now and would just like to say kudos for a remarkable post
    and a all round interesting blog (I also love the theme/design), I don’t have time to browse it all at the moment but I have bookmarked
    it and also included your RSS feeds, so when I have time I will
    be back to read a lot more, Please do keep up the great jo.

  11. Hi there just wanted to give you a quick heads up.
    The text in your content seem to be running off the screen in Firefox.

    I’m not sure if this is a format issue or something to do with web browser
    compatibility but I figured I’d post to let you know. The layout
    look great though! Hope you get the issue solved soon. Kudos

  12. Fantastic items from you, man. I have have in mind your stuff prior to
    and you’re just extremely excellent. I actually like
    what you’ve bought here, really like what you’re saying
    and the way in which by which you assert it. You make it entertaining and you still take care of to keep it
    sensible. I can’t wait to learn much more from you. This is
    really a wonderful site.

  13. I was recommended this website by my cousin. I
    am not sure whether this post is written by him as nobody else know such detailed about my trouble.
    You’re incredible! Thanks!

  14. I got this site from my friend who told me concerning this web site and now this time I am visiting this
    web site and reading very informative articles at this time.

  15. I feel this is one of the such a lot vital info for me. And
    i am glad studying your article. However should remark on some
    normal things, The site style is perfect, the articles is in point of fact excellent : D.
    Good activity, cheers

  16. Вы не правы. Могу это доказать. Пишите мне в PM, поговорим.


    По моему мнению Вы ошибаетесь. Могу отстоять свою позицию. Пишите мне в PM. профнастил москва, профнастил с8а а также [url=http://levtolstoy.org/kunena/user/20809-owehesan.html]тут[/url] монтаж профнастила

  17. Hey There. I found your weblog the use of msn. This is an extremely smartly written article.
    I’ll make sure to bookmark it and return to learn more of your helpful information. Thanks for the post.
    I will definitely comeback.

  18. Hey there just wanted to give you a quick heads up.
    The text in your article seem to be running off the screen in Ie.
    I’m not sure if this is a formatting issue or something to do with web browser compatibility but I thought I’d post to let you know.
    The layout look great though! Hope you get the issue
    solved soon. Cheers

  19. I know this if off topic but I’m looking into starting my own blog and
    was wondering what all is needed to get setup?
    I’m assuming having a blog like yours would cost a pretty penny?
    I’m not very web smart so I’m not 100% sure. Any suggestions or advice would
    be greatly appreciated. Thanks

  20. Hello are using WordPress for your site platform? I’m new to
    the blog world but I’m trying to get started and create my own. Do you need any coding expertise to make your own blog?

    Any help would be greatly appreciated!

  21. Не могу сейчас принять участие в дискуссии – очень занят. Очень скоро обязательно выскажу своё мнение.


    А другой вариант есть? ульяновск генератор аренда, аренда генератора ростов или тут аренда генератора могилев

  22. My programmer is trying to persuade me to move to .net from PHP.

    I have always disliked the idea because of the costs.
    But he’s tryiong none the less. I’ve been using Movable-type on a number of websites for about a year
    and am anxious about switching to another platform. I have heard fantastic things about blogengine.net.

    Is there a way I can transfer all my wordpress content into
    it? Any kind of help would be greatly appreciated!

  23. We wish to thank you once more for the beautiful ideas
    you gave Jeremy when preparing her post-graduate research plus, most
    importantly, for providing all of the ideas in a blog post.
    If we had known of your web-site a year ago, we may have been saved
    the useless measures we were choosing. Thank you very much.

  24. Right here is the right website for everyone who really wants
    to find out about this topic. You know so much its almost tough to argue with you (not that I actually will need to…HaHa).
    You certainly put a brand new spin on a topic that has been written about for
    years. Excellent stuff, just wonderful!

  25. It’s genuinely very complex in this busy life to listen news on Television,
    therefore I just use internet for that purpose, and get the
    most recent information.

  26. first picture upload internet you be in my heart tarzan race monitor for pc music player for samsung mobile paulina rubio the one you love

    lagu menanti sebuah jawaban oleh donita my image garden canon mp 230 driver florin salam iubirea mea din filme 2012 drupal 7 business solutions tony q rastafara preman buronan

    https://kavelik222.com

    lge tool 1 76 online shop erstellen software thomas wooden railway wiki 1993 dvd 50 cent link lagu mars danamon banking

  27. I have read several just right stuff here. Definitely worth bookmarking for revisiting. I wonder how much effort you set to make such a wonderful informative web site.

  28. Thank you for any other wonderful post. The place else could anybody get that kind of information in such an ideal method of writing? I’ve a presentation next week, and I am on the look for such information.

  29. Thanks a lot for providing individuals with such a remarkable chance to read in detail from this web site. It is often very beneficial and stuffed with fun for me and my office peers to visit your web site more than 3 times a week to see the latest items you have got. And of course, I am also always contented with your eye-popping things you give. Selected two tips in this posting are truly the most suitable we have all had.

  30. Great goods from you, man. I have understand your stuff previous to and you are just extremely magnificent. I actually like what you have acquired here, really like what you are saying and the way in which you say it. You make it enjoyable and you still care for to keep it smart. I can’t wait to read much more from you. This is really a great website.

  31. Hi there, I discovered your website by way of Google at the same time as looking for a comparable topic, your
    web site came up, it seems good. I’ve bookmarked it in my google bookmarks.

    Hello there, simply was aware of your weblog thru Google, and found that it’s
    truly informative. I am going to be careful for brussels.
    I will be grateful if you happen to proceed this in future.
    A lot of other folks shall be benefited out of your writing.
    Cheers!

  32. you are really a good webmaster. The website loading speed is amazing. It seems that you’re doing any unique trick. Also, The contents are masterwork. you have done a magnificent job on this topic!

  33. It is the best time to make a few plans for the future and it is
    time to be happy. I have read this submit and if I may I wish to recommend you some interesting issues or
    tips. Perhaps you could write next articles referring to this
    article. I wish to learn even more issues approximately it!

  34. I loved as much as you’ll receive carried out right here.

    The sketch is tasteful, your authored subject matter stylish.
    nonetheless, you command get bought an impatience over that you
    wish be delivering the following. unwell unquestionably come more formerly again as exactly the same nearly very
    often inside case you shield this hike. https://tadalafili.com/

  35. Your style is really unique in comparison to other people I’ve
    read stuff from. I appreciate you for posting when you’ve got
    the opportunity, Guess I will just book mark this page.

  36. Hola! I’ve been reading your site for a long time now and finally got the courage to go
    ahead and give you a shout out from Houston Texas! Just wanted to tell you keep
    up the great work!

  37. По моему мнению Вы ошибаетесь. Могу отстоять свою позицию. Пишите мне в PM, обсудим.


    Буду знать, большое спасибо за информацию. программа домашний каталог, программа автозапчасти каталог или тут программа с каталогом

  38. My brother recommended I might like this blog. He was totally right.
    This post truly made my day. You cann’t imagine just how much time I had spent
    for this information! Thanks!

  39. Какая фраза… супер


    супер) улибнуло)) партнерские программы каталог, каталог программ создать или тут фото каталог программы

  40. It’s a pity you don’t have a donate button! I’d
    definitely donate to this brilliant blog! I suppose for now i’ll settle for book-marking and adding your RSS feed
    to my Google account. I look forward to brand new updates and will share this website with my Facebook group.
    Talk soon!

  41. Woah! I’m really enjoying the template/theme of this
    site. It’s simple, yet effective. A lot of times it’s hard to get that « perfect balance » between superb usability and visual appeal.
    I must say you’ve done a fantastic job with this.
    Additionally, the blog loads very quick for me on Opera.
    Outstanding Blog!

  42. The other day, while I was at work, my cousin stole my iPad and tested to see if it can survive a 40 foot drop, just
    so she can be a youtube sensation. My iPad is now broken and she has 83 views.
    I know this is totally off topic but I had to share it with someone!

  43. Hmm it seems like your site ate my first comment (it was extremely long) so I guess I’ll just sum it up what
    I had written and say, I’m thoroughly enjoying your blog.
    I too am an aspiring blog blogger but I’m still new to the whole thing.
    Do you have any recommendations for beginner blog writers?
    I’d genuinely appreciate it.

  44. After I initially left a comment I seem to have clicked the -Notify me when new comments
    are added- checkbox and now each time a comment is added I receive four emails with the exact same comment.
    There has to be an easy method you can remove
    me from that service? Thanks a lot!

  45. Unquestionably believe that which you said.
    Your favorite justification appeared to be on the web the simplest thing to be
    aware of. I say to you, I certainly get annoyed while
    people think about worries that they just don’t know about.
    You managed to hit the nail upon the top and also defined out the whole thing without having side effect
    , people could take a signal. Will probably be back to get
    more. Thanks

  46. I do not know if it’s just me or if everybody else encountering issues with
    your blog. It looks like some of the text within your
    posts are running off the screen. Can someone else please comment and let me know if this is
    happening to them too? This could be a problem with my internet browser because I’ve had this
    happen previously. Thanks

  47. Having read this I thought it was extremely enlightening.

    I appreciate you spending some time and energy to put
    this information together. I once again find myself personally spending way too much time both
    reading and posting comments. But so what, it was still worth
    it!

  48. Hi, Neat post. There is an issue with your website
    in web explorer, might check this? IE still is the marketplace leader and a big component of other
    people will miss your great writing because of this
    problem.

  49. А это имеет аналог?


    Между нами говоря, советую Вам попробовать поискать в google.com узи псков, медси узи а также здесь узи фетометрия

  50. это прямо хаб будущего


    Да, действительно. И я с этим столкнулся. Давайте обсудим этот вопрос. здоровый сон польза, наматрасник здоровый сон и тут здоровых снов картинка

  51. you’re really a good webmaster. The site loading speed is incredible. It seems that you’re doing any unique trick. Also, The contents are masterpiece. you’ve done a magnificent job on this topic!

  52. Wow that was odd. I just wrote an incredibly long
    comment but after I clicked submit my comment didn’t appear.
    Grrrr… well I’m not writing all that over again. Anyways,
    just wanted to say superb blog!

  53. Извините, что не могу сейчас поучаствовать в дискуссии – нет свободного времени. Освобожусь – обязательно выскажу своё мнение по этому вопросу.
    .|If a territory does not allow for sweepstakes video games, https://web-ss.com/gratis-tragamonedas-totalmente-nih-gov_602643.html Then it is deemed ineligible and customers from that territory can’t participate in sweepstakes poker

  54. Greate article. Keep posting such kind of information on your page.
    Im really impressed by it.
    Hello there, You’ve done a great job. I will certainly digg it and
    for my part recommend to my friends. I am sure they’ll be benefited from this website.

    https://1baiser.com

  55. изначально догадался..


    Какой занимательный ответ молодой стоячий фото, webstame на русском а также тут вахнор жж

  56. Какие нужные слова… супер, блестящая мысль


    Буду знать, благодарю за информацию. отделка комнаты цена, ищу мастера для ремонта а также здесь стройка и отделка

  57. ОГо вот бы там побывать……


    Точная фраза полтора бобра livejournal жж, перемоги livejournal или тут блог доброго мурзика